Bye for now
Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart.
The house named Stanton at the Back River, near New Norfolk, Tasmania has certainly taken hold of the souls who live in this place and we do accept this nurturing, motherly building as fate would have it.
The people who have stayed or called at Stanton have chosen to come here because they were in my mind drawn to it, enticed by the place which is all of a home, a business and a piece of Australia’s history.
To everyone, from the first guest to the final special person who stayed here, you had our heart from the time you said “Hello”.
But now I am saying goodbye and closing Stanton as a Bed and Breakfast. I cannot do it all and I have to accept this for now. Its fate, I presume.
The above opening quote was attributed to Marcus Aurelius; Roman Emperor, Soldier, Philosopher and, I believe a man who was trying to find his way through life in uncertain times.
His Cosmos suits Stanton, I would have liked to have invited him over for dinner and talked to him about his stoic philosophy and what his tips are for a true life. Maybe we would have got along … putting aside him being an Emperor and all that.
I may come back, I would like to. After my orchards have been tended in the fashion of a retiring legionary and stories told of long ago service to the nation.
I like Stanton, I like my world and life itself. But, I’m going to have a break for a while and then come back and talk to you … I hope you don’t mind.
— Mark McDiarmid
04 May 2011 admin
Hi Mark
Sorry to hear that you have had to close Stanton as a B&B.
We will remember the days that we spent with you last March.
Hope you are able to open again soon.
Chris
Hi Mark,
We have never met but I had hoped to come and stay sometime at Stanton House and I still hope that will happen.
My Great, Great, Great Grandfather built Stanton House and as a child I never heard anything about my Grandfathers time in Tasmania. He came to Melbourne about 1909 and my mother and her brothers and sisters were all born in Melbourne. Maybe if I had listened I may have known about Stanton earlier, such is life I guess – how do we get so smart as we get older.
I do hope that having a little break makes you feel refreshed and that Stanton opens up again – but if not – one day if you see people peering over your fence it just might be us. Enjoy the break. Gwen.
hello mark,
i am sorry to hear of the loss of your partner helen i enjoyed reading her stories of life at stanton
i recently discovered stanton while researching my family ancesters who were among the original settlers in the back river/magra area
i looked forward to visiting stanton and wept when i realised it had closed however i do hope you are enjoying your orchard and hope you are able to come back and talk with us
merilyn
Hi Mark
Just read about the closure and want to record that the NZ Shones have really appreciated your hospitality when we visited in 2010 and through your research have learned so much about our remarkable convict heritage.
We do hope to visit Tassie later this year with other members of the NZ Shone family who have not yet had the chance to see the wonderful restoration wotk you have done at Stanton.
Best wishes
Mike